Hard to look at

I watched a bit of television tonight. I saw Charlie Sheen, star of one of my favourite all time comedies, as he unravels. It's hard to see. He was such a brilliant comedic actor and now, it seems, he's scripting his own exit. It such a shame to see him in such chaos.

Then, switched the channel and tuned into Hoarders. It's important to for me to see the shows, on account of work. It's another show that is difficult to watch but at least when I see it, I believe I have the skills to help someone in that situation. When I see the struggles of people dealing with their own personal hoarding issues I feel compassion. I don't judge. I want them to get help.

Each situation is different, but there is most certainly one thing in common:  They all have to take the first step. There comes a time to just tackle the issue. A time to ask for help.

Hoarders need their families. They also need counselling - whether it is a clinician, a pastor, or a psychologist, they need to start talking and releasing some of their thoughts. It is only when we begin to understand what brought them to this point, can we help them move forward.

Shows like Hoarders are great to get people talking.  We can see the pain in holding on to items rather than letting things go. Items that can not be found, or used lack value. If it costs you more in anxiety and stress and health and living space, than it serves meaningful purpose is it worth it?

Shows like ET, TMZ etc that seems to be exploiting Charlie Sheen, Lindsay Lohan and others aren't serving a purpose that I can see. And since I can not help or understand the situation, I won't be watching them any longer. But as shows like Hoarders bring about meaningful discussion on topics that touch all regions of our continent, I WILL continue to watch. I will watch so that I may better understand and better hone my technique as an Organizer. Each situation is unique and will play out differently. I can only hope that when I get the chance to help someone get their life back on track, my skills will serve me well. It's with a genuine desire to help that I approach every situation. I may not always have the right words. I may ask difficult questions and I most certainly do not have all the answers. But I won't look away. Not when I know I can help.